Just the way YOU are .

- Just the way you are :

A man and his fiance were married. It was a great party. All his friends and family came to see the beautiful ceremony and attended the celebrations and celebrations. Everyone had a wonderful time.

The bride was beautiful in her white wedding dress and the groom was very elegant in his black tuxedo. Everyone could say that the love they had for each other was true

A few months later, the woman introduces herself to the husband with a suggestion: "Some time ago I read in a magazine how to strengthen our marriage," she offered.

"Each of us will write a list of things that seem a little boring to the other person, then we can talk about how we can fix them and make our lives happier."

The husband agreed. Then each of them went to a separate room and thought about the things that bothered them. They considered this question for the rest of the day and wrote what they found.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided they would go to their lists.

"I'm starting," the woman said. She pulled out her list. There were many items in it.

Enough to fill 3 pages.

When she began to read the list of minor problems, she noticed that tears began to appear in her husband's eyes.

"What's going on?" she asked. "Nothing," replied the man, "keep reading your list."

The woman continued reading until she read the three pages to her husband.

She placed her list carefully on the table and crossed her hands over it.

"Now that you read your list and then we'll talk about things on our two lists." She said happily.

Silently, the man said: "I have nothing on the list, I think you're perfect just the way you are, I do not want you to change anything for me."

You are beautiful and wonderful and I do not want to try to change anything about you.

The woman, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned his head and wept.

Listen to the peace and blessings of the Prophet in him when he said:

"No believing man should hate a believing woman, and if he hates any of her qualities, he will be satisfied with another.

This saying shows how humble and kind the husband is, he may not like the qualities of his wife, but he will do everything possible to find another quality that he likes and will not mind so much. it's not like his wife.

Moral of the story: In life, there are enough moments when we are disappointed, depressed and upset. We really do not have to catch that.

We have a wonderful world full of beauty, light, and promise.

Why waste time in this world looking for bad, disappointing or boring things when we can look around and see the wonderful things in front of us?

I believe that we are the best when we see good and praise and we do everything possible to forget the mistakes of our spouse. No one is perfect, but we can find perfection in them to change the way we see them. It is necessary to understand the difficulties and help each other ... This illuminates the relationship.

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